Homebirth on the Rise!

105 years ago, 5% of women delivered their babies in a hospital. The rest delivered in their homes under the supervision of apprenticeship-trained midwives. In the time between then and now, we have seen those percentages completely reversed. There are many fascinating reasons why this shift occurred, many of which had to do with “progressive medicine” under the influence of a very prominent doctor who wrote the first textbook for male medical students that purported that the field of maternity/obstetrics was pathological. I’ll save you the history lesson, but Midwifery Today has a very well laid-out timeline, should you want to get the broad overview of obstetrics in the US.

A student recently sent me an article picked up by the Sacramento Bee on the significant rise of home birth in California. We decided to look into it more thoroughly and found that Lassen County has one of the highest percentages of home birth in California! When we looked at the numbers, we discovered that Lassen County has also underreported the home birth numbers by about 2/3, so if the actual number of home births that occurred were added into the central analysis, then it looks like Lassen would have the highest percentage of home birth in California at around 7% of total births occurring at home. How exciting!

The largest planned out-of-hospital birth study was published by MANA and took into account 17,000 women who chose to birth at home. The study showed a 5.2% Cesarean rate for full-term out-of-hospital births vs the 31% Cesarean rate in planned hospital deliveries. Babies also fared very well in the study. Ninety-seven percent of babies were carried to full-term, they weighed an average of eight pounds at birth, and nearly 98% were being breastfed at the six-week postpartum visit with their midwife. Only 1% of babies required transfer to the hospital after birth, most for non-urgent conditions.

Of course, the studies are helpful for providing more data on the safety of having a midwife-attended out-of-hospital birth - but you could also ask any number of women who have experienced the nurturing and nourishing care of a midwife in the comfort of their own home. If you have had a home birth, share your story!

A breast cancer survivor after her home birth.

A breast cancer survivor after her home birth.

Life, Death and something about Labor

December 22nd I was laboring a sweet young mother - slowly and steadily she was riding the waves of the contractions that would bring her baby to become an air-creature. As her labor intensified, my mom called because a mile away my grandma was having a severe stroke. (Grandma moved here shortly after we did so she could spend her remaining years surrounded by my family - what a blessing for ALL of us!). With tears in my eyes I looked at the beautiful strength in front of me - another wave of intensity washing over this young woman-about-to-become-mother.

I was pierced with the juxtaposition of the moment:

the joy of a new baby and the poignancy of a life passing on.

I am honored to attend the births of so many little ones - their mothers bearing witness to the truth that growth comes through struggle. Many women have said the closest they’ve ever come to death was in the intense struggle of labor. I teach in my childbirth classes that Early Labor is the mental part of labor, Active Labor is the physical part of labor leading to Transition being intensely spiritual and Pushing combines all three in determination. That looks like:

Early Labor (Mind) Questions: “do I have everything ready?”, “am I ready to be a mother?”, “am I going to be able to handle labor?”, “did I remember to get dog food for the week?”, “I don’t know what I’m doing”

Active Labor (Body): as contractions become more intense over time, there is much less concern with what is outside of you and much more focus on the strength within. I love the labor mantra, “this is not stronger than you because IT IS YOU”. Thoughts about dog food and the awkwardness of early labor sensations all disappear as you surrender to your BODY and the innate physicality that is being expressed.

Transition (Soul): nothing exists outside of what you are doing in this moment and often arrows of fear begin to assail your insides - not in questions like early labor - but in doubts about being a mother, your own mother’s failures, the chinks in your relationship, the inadequacy you feel to be responsible for another human…all in a stewpot over the most intense fire of contractions. This is the shortest hardest part of labor for most women. And the intensity is in the soul - it is in Transition that you’ll fight your demons and grasp for light. You’ll face your own mortality.

Pushing (Body+Mind+Soul): after you machete your way through Transition using every tool you’ve put in your labor toolbox, then the baby rotates and BAM - you’re a whole person again. The unstoppable physical urge to push awakens your body and mind again as the finish line is in sight and the darkness of transition fades as Dawn spreads over the soul - THIS BABY IS COMING OUT!

What does any of this have to do with my grandma passing away? As I entered the struggle of labor with this woman to bring new life earthside, my grandma slipped painlessly, blamelessly, and peacefully into the life beyond. The contrast was stark - the beauty shattering. It is also so very very good to remember that we are all born (amazing!) and we will all pass away. Our culture has tried to hide both from public view - birth and death are both mostly done in hospital rooms rather than living rooms. This has caused us to be uncomfortable with both life and death when we should embrace both, share both, fully enter into both - remember both in our daily lives!

Prayers for peace in your homes.

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